In the heat of the moment you are not able to keep your cool, connect, coach, or peacefully discipline your child. Even if you have positive strategies.

Contradicting advice keeps you trying way too hard. So you stay at the bottom of the list, end up over the edge, burnout, or resentful.

Your emotional baggage from your childhood keeps you triggered, over-reacting, or shutting down.

You’ve picked up some bad habits and patterns, like being reactive, too permissive, controlling, anger issues, or struggling with communication.

You have negative thoughts about yourself, your child, or your parenting. “I am not enough”, “ My child is very difficult”, “ Being a parent is too hard”

You're relying on tools that lead to disconnection, such as yelling, threats, taking away privileges, time-outs, lecturing, rewards, giving in, enabling, or checking out.

You're always seeking the the next quick tip, tool or trick. Too many parenting approaches and styles to choose from- so you freeze!

You’re currently winging it, doing your best, and hoping things turn out okay. But deep down, you know you don’t want to leave it to chance.

You and your spouse are on different parenting teams. Or you swing between yelling and being a pushover. Your home lack rules, clear expectations, and consistent follow-through.

You and your family are always in a power battle and don’t know how to solve problems together without a struggle.

There are seeds of mistrust, resentment, criticism, or poor communication growing in your family. AND you feel a need to heal the parent-child relationship.

Your child’s not listening, cooperating, or showing respect. Hurtful comments, attitude, and constant fights are just part of daily life now. And you don't want that to be the norm.

Jealousy, competition, favoritism, and rivalry are causing constant bickering and fights between your kids, and you’re tired of playing referee. You’re hoping to build a more "best friend" vibe among them.

Your child fears you or your spouse, tiptoeing around when you're in a "mood," and you worry that you might be causing emotional harm.

You fear your child, constantly tiptoeing around them to avoid meltdowns or outbursts, and you struggle to recover quickly and effectively from breakdowns.

You’re not sure how to tackle the root of misbehavior and end up constantly putting out fires—dealing with attention-seeking, whining, complaining, or tantrums.

You keep facing the same issues over and over, like power struggles, not listening, sibling fights, negotiations, or everyday hassles such as bedtime, homework, screens, and mealtime.

Your child seems to be seeking revenge through aggression, like throwing or breaking things, saying hurtful comments, or expressing resentment.

Your child struggles with emotional challenges and navigating life at home or school, feeling inadequate, anxious, isolated, or helpless. They might say things like, “I can’t do it,” “I’m dumb,” or “I have no friends.”

Your family lacks key social-emotional skills such as patience, self-control, confidence, anger management, empathy, problem-solving, and peaceful communication.

All four! I see that all 4 obstacles are getting in my way. I’m not settling for anything less than the best family dynamic. I’ll clear the path, tackle all four hurdles, and help create the best home-life we can.

An Unsinkable State Of Mind: 80% of your (and your child’s) future success starts with your mindset. Change YOUR state of mind, and you can transform your parenting! Let’s ditch those bad habits, unhealthy patterns, and limiting beliefs that mess up your relationship with your kids. A fresh mindset helps you communicate with love, tackle challenges more effectively, and stay calm.

Our Discipline Strategy: To kickstart my parenting evolution, I'll swap out the unproductive tools that lead to family drama. Say goodbye to inconsistency, mixed messages, and breakdowns. Instead, I'll learn and use kind and firm strategies that are effective and make both me and my kids feel great.

My Family's Connection: A strong connection is the antidote to negative behavior and interactions! I want to learn how to build, maintain, and repair our connections with each other—whether it's between me and my child, with my spouse/co-parent, or among siblings. When we have a deep connection, trust, listening, cooperation, respect, and kindness just fall into place.

My Family's EQ Skills: I’m done with quick fixes. I want to dig into the root causes of misbehavior and understand what drives it. I’ll boost my family’s emotional intelligence, learn how to work together as a team, and help my child build a strong sense of self. When we feel better, we do better, and I want to see misbehavior drop off quickly.